Sexuality is an integral part of any healthy, well-balanced relationship. Sex helps to bring you closer in a way that only romantic relationships can foster. The importance of sex is tailor-made in any given relationship. Where, how, and how often you have it is totally up to the two or more people in an intimate and loving relationship. That being said, oral sex or dick sucking also plays an important role in healthy relationships.
Oral sex is about giving to your partner
In order to develop a healthy relationship, you’ve got to give a little to get a little. Oral sex is all about giving. I’m not saying getting your rocks off while giving head is impossible. There are ways to get off while giving a blow job or cunnilingus, such as this nifty “orgasmic meditation technique” that Cosmo can’t seem to get enough of, but oral sex is mostly an act of giving like been watched on interactive porn. It’s not exactly easy to have an orgasm when your face is full of dick/clit and your mind is concentrating on rapid bobbing or tongue swirls. It’s a lot to have going on.
There is no wrong way to experience sexuality
A couple’s comfort and sexuality is completely individual to that particular couple. It is inevitable that there will be one partner who has a higher sex drive in a relationship. When this happens, you have to find a balance that will keep both people happy.
The end bye
You can have casual sex and still have an orgasm. In most cases, you can’t give casual head and have an orgasm. When you give someone a blow job or perform cunnilingus, you’re not getting anything out of this experience. To me, this shows that you genuinely care about this person.